What Does It Really Mean to Put Christ First
One of the most challenging statements Jesus ever made is found in the Gospel of Matthew: "Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me... Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it." (Matthew 10:37-39) At first glance, these words can sound almost shocking. Is Jesus telling us to love our families less? Certainly not. Throughout Scripture we are commanded to honor our father and mother, to love our spouse, and to care for our children. What Christ is teaching is something much deeper: God must always come first. When we love God above everything else, every other relationship finds its proper place. But when anything—even something good—takes the place that belongs to God alone, our lives begin to lose their proper order. This has been humanity's struggle from the very beginning. In the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve enjoyed perfect communi...